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Sometimes I get sent something so awesome that I can’t wait to whack it out of its packaging and show it to the world. This is one of those times. When I first laid my eyes upon the Tantus Black Widow Connoisseur harness on the Tantus website, I was in love. It looked perfectly amazing. I wanted it. But the sheer beauty of what it seemed was nothing compared to what it was when I had it in my hands. It was exquisite, a work of art and just so damn beautiful, I had to tell everyone about it. And I did.
I’ve taken a separate pic of the harness as it was over shadowed by an (awesome) mug. BUT LOOK AT THIS THING. pic.twitter.com/lXWRfswFKV
— BlissfullyOrgasmic (@BlissfullyOrgas) July 7, 2015
After spending an hour or so touching this thing, stroking it and yes, weirdly enough smelling it (I have a thing about leather OK), it was time it got a trying on. I’ll admit, it’s not the easiest thing to get on, however, it does look stunning when it is on. It’s also incredibly comfortable to wear. I practically wore this all day and, because I can at times be super childish, I may have danced around the house singing Spider Cock, Spider Cock and Doing the willy dance. It had to be done. I regret nothing.
The harness is pretty damn beautiful, it’s made from thick leather and has some rather beautifully detailed stitching creating the web design. The harness is quite large and is made to fit people with 30-50 inch hips. If you’re on the lower scale of that, I imagine that you’d have to cut the straps/get the straps professionally cut as there’s quite a bit of strap left over, which could potentially get in the way. This harness fastens with a buckle, which does remind me of a standard belt buckle. I feel that, if you had larger hips, you may be able to attach a belt to either side of the strap, thus increasing the room available – I have not tried this, however, so I wouldn’t be able to guarantee its success. Due to this being fastened with buckles, I feel it’s a bit more effort to put on. However, it does provide a more secure fit than the harnesses I’ve worn before that use Velcro straps. The fit on this is perfect. Not only can you adjust the buckles on either side of your hips, but you can also adjust the sizing at the back of the legs.
You’re not limited in the dildos you can use with the Black Widow harness. It is able to support a multitude of rings. Extra rings don’t come with the harness, however, you can buy them separately from Tantus, making the already awesome harness interchangeable, supporting a huge amount of cocks. The rings are incredibly easy to switch out and made entirely from silicone, so they’re easy to clean. *Pictures show the silicone rings (Sold separately) and the Uncut#1 Dildo, also sold separately* To clean the harness, Tantus recommend using a watered down solution of white vinegar or castile soap on a clean cloth. Once cleaned, wipe dry. While on, this harness leaves you completely exposed, which is a huge selling point for me. It enables you to fuck while being fucked, or an array of other possibilities. When wearing this, I wasn’t able to wear it over my clitoris, so I wasn’t able to get clitoral pleasure from the pressure of the dildo; however, when combined with a hands free clitoral vibe it felt pretty spectacular each and every time I thrusted. In use, the harness is pretty damn sturdy. Due to the tightness of the fitting, I really had the control that I needed. The dildos stayed put and it was incredibly easy to manoeuvre. Sometimes with fabric harnesses, I can forget that I’m wearing them. That wasn’t the case with this one, I was hyper aware at all times that I was wearing a harness and, although I felt pretty bad ass wearing this, I still wish, at times, I was able to forget about it. I found that sometimes the leather could dig in to me, which was a bit of a problem and prompted me to readjust occasionally – but, honestly, that didn’t happen so often that I wouldn’t recommend it.
The Black Widow Connoisseur harness is magnificent. It’s well made and detail-orientated. If you’re looking for a high quality harness with interchangeable loops, then you should seriously have a look at this one – or any of the other harnesses in the Connoisseur collection.
This item was sent to me in exchange for an honest review, all opinions are my own. Affiliate links have been used within this post.